From : Nicole

When I am with someone I want to consume them. In return I want to be consumed.
 I am a very passionate, sexual, sensual woman and I want the same in a man. A man
 who will let me talk care of him, but also vulnerable enough to let is most intense, 
passionate thoughts and fantasies out, and share them with me. A man that wants to 
touch me, hug me, kiss me, and in return I will do the same. A man that will stand up 
for himself and his loved ones, including his lady is a huge turn on. Romance is a big 
part of a relationship especially sex. If a woman doesn't take care of her man, he in
return will loose interest and excitement in the relationship. Passion in a relationship 
is the most important of all, passion for each others bodies, passion for experimentation, 
passion for each others thoughts. Believe me, if you find the right person, it can and will 
work. Relationships are work, but don't ever discount the sex, sex is the major part of a
relationship, it always opens the opportunity for conversation and communication. Sex, 
making love, is the best form of communication a man and a woman, or vice versa, could 
have. Once the romance, sex, and passion is gone in a relationship all forms of 
communication stop between two people. Again, it takes work, but it is well worth it. 
One more thing I would like to add. Keep experimenting things can only get better 
that way, and talk about your likes and dislikes.

romantic date: I have never really had the opportunity to find the right man, a man 
that shared the same passions as I do. So many men these day, well at least the 
ones I have dated are so young they have no interest in romance or passion. So 
I have never been fortunate to go onto a romantic date that would explode me 
with the kind of romance, and pleasure I am looking for.  I know they exist it is 
just a matter of finding him. I also am into the chivalry thing, most women are 
extreme feminist, I'm not saying I'm not independent maybe just a little old fashioned.

little things: Its the little things that count the most. I love for a man, to notice 
my eyes and complement me for them. Or even just my smile. That makes me 
feel good. But to this day I have never met a man who has just swooped me off 
my feet. I have hopes, but hasn't happened yet
  

From: Kylie

My favorite thing my boyfriend does to make me gush is that he pretends to wrestle with me.  He never really tries because i would be a smooched sardine, but it makes me laugh incredibly hard and we always end up in just that right kissing position!!!! =)

From: Pixy

The major elements of romance...probably the want to make the other person happy, 
and not feeling obligated to do anything.

romantic date: Probably the time neither of us had any money to go to a fancy restaurant
on our anniversary. He made me stay in another room while he set up a romantic candle
lit dinner with food he cooked up himself. It was better than any restaurant.

little things: The way he says 'I love you', certain looks he gives me, he's a very unselfish
and mature person for his age which is what attracted me to him in the first place.

From: Allen 

Share....care....touch....listen,.. really listen,
please her and it's easy if turning HER on gives you pleasure too, 
if not, what could one say to help others out?  


romantic date: I make supper, (any damn thing you want, I'm a chef) with 
wine ,beer, cordials, or just conversation.

little things: She simply looks at me, and says, YOU ARE SUCH A MAN or 
I REALLY WANT TO BE WITH YOU!( in the biblical sense.)...and Shoot!...what could I do?

From: Anoek

A horse cart for you and your friend.  You can go to a really quiet place there you have champagne, strawberries and whatever.  Then have the horse and cart come take you to your home.

(A note from CyberKisses... Anoek is from Holland but I think this would go over big here too!)

From: Olga

Why he came? I don't know
Why he looked to my eyes? I don't know.
Why he smiled to me? And said that i have cat's eyes? 
What did he mean? And he laughed at me, 
and i, like a little girl was full of love, now, 
now i feel i love him, i love him so much! 
He is my strong Leo! And the best thing in my 
life was that i met him!
I LOVE YOU, OSCWICK!

romantic date: Most romantic date: ...i will have a date soon, the best one. 6 months
 with my Oscwick. Oh, no, i have a date, when i met him!

little things: He always tells me sweet words when i don't wait, he always knows
 what i need and feel. He says i'm pretty and asks why? I guess he is a part of me, he says so..

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From: Smoothchick

Well for me its isn't the big thing that counts but more of the little things a guy does for u. 
For instance puts flowers in your locker or something.  Don't get me wrong i love the 
candles n dinner but i really really love the little things

little things: when he makes a crooked smile. 
Or whispers little things in my ears.  
But i love it when i get e-cards from him

From: raith

for me, the major elements of romance is sincerely from your heart, 
it's not from someone request or some instruction, it's born from your 
deeply heart to do something nice for someone special for you 

romantic date: there's a night when me and my boy came to the cafe 
and it was late, i felt hungry and i want to eat, but the cafe is out of food, 
and he decided to buy it outside. And when he came back with the food 
and also with the flower, it's a rose.

little things: when i confesses that i'm not virgin anymore and he still 
wants me to be his last woman in his life

From: Stephanie

I think the little things are what is important. Guys seem to think they 
have to impress u with how much money they make. While it's important
that I don't have to support u (lol), what's more important is the things u 
say and do. The dinner u make and set by candlelight, the holding hands, 
the single flowers, the strolls in the park or anywhere, the phone calls or 
cards for no reason, the sweet things we leave u open to say all the time, 
the sweet kisses on the neck and a million other things. The sense of humor 
is also very key. Don't let a girl get away with everything, set some limits...but 
don't be dominating. I don't need another dad. Be sincere and honest. Lastly, 
hear the girl out. She's probably got a lot more to say than u give her credit for. 

romantic date: for my birthday, my ex-boyfriend made me a candlelit lunch 
(surprise when i came home for lunch from work), dinner in which he also 
invited my parent, and homemade carrot cake he made from scratch. We 
then watched videos (after everyone else left) and cuddled all night. No phone, 
pagers, cells.. and most of all.. said i love u and u have my heart.


Stephanie also wants to hear more from the guys...I do too!  At least I hope they 
are reading these and picking up some good tips!   ~*l*~

From: Anon

 

I think the most important elements of a successful romance are honesty between 
the two people, caring for each other, love, having some things in common (yet with
still some separate interests), and there has to be give and take on both sides. Not 
only one person giving a lot of themselves and the other only taking.

Another important element is the Element of Successful Communication. You have
to feel confidence in the person you are with; and if you cannot be open with the 
person, then there is little chance that the relationship will be successful.

romantic date: My darling took me out to a very nice restaurant to have dinner.
After ordering the meals, the waiter in the restaurant asked us if we would like
 wine or beer as a beverage; and at the time, I thought wine was sold by the glass, 
i.e.. you pay for example A$3 for each glass of wine; so my bf wanted to know if I 
wanted wine, I agreed; but the restaurant only sold wine by the bottle! At the time 
I felt so guilty; because I was concerned he was going to spend too much money; 
but he was not worried about that at all.
All in all, it was a wonderful evening for us; and I just want to relive it again!

little things: The main little things that my darling does: Well there are really too 
many to mention; so I will say a few:

After going out with him, when I get the bus home (he has a license but not a car 
as yet) he cares for me by calling my parents to let them know I am safely on my 
way home; which they really appreciate.

Another time, for a few days I was not well; so he e mailed me regularly, and called
me just to see how I was feeling....

To tell the truth I just gush over how much he cares for me; he is honest with me; 
he is the most kind, caring, genuine, and truthful man I have ever met; and I love him.

 

 

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